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Not
really! Read on!
Most of the conversations in relationships that fail consist
of reacting automatically to each
other and 'pushing each other's buttons.'
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MY OWN STORY:
Without realizing it, probably what you have been doing up until now has
composed the problem, and hurt people around you. Most of us never got
any training in how to manage disputes, and so we escalate, cause
unnecessary hurt and open wounds difficult to heal.
In my own story, I have realized much later the impact of my own words
on people I loved...too late to understand why my loved ones were
distant, frustrated or simply aggressive with me....People finally lost
all trust on me, and expected always angry reactions from me!
I had failed to identify their needs and was pushing only for mine, in
such an aggressive way that I was ignoring the relationship...Nobody
told me how to care for the link with other people, I only understood my
need to defend myself!!
It took me years and much thinking and reflection on my own life and my
friends' life stories to discover basic truths on relationships...You
will be surprised to discover the real role of conflict in your
relationship...
This is what I have learned in the harsh school of life:
CONFLICT is not intended to make
you two grow apart, but to help learn the basic truth about how to deal
with each other!
You need two to have a dispute, but to
repair your relationship, you need only One Person: YOU!
Neil Warner, Editor
Creative Conflict Resolutions
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When frustration builds up,
we escalate by being angry, oppositional and violent. Demanding,
challenging and requesting that the other should change first,
so then we will do the behavior that has a positive impact
in the relationship, is a dead end. What we do to defend ourselves,
the other side experiences as emotional abuse! And you never
intended it to be abusive!
Consequently, if you knew how to stop nagging, doing knee-jerk
reactions and change your communication NOW, your partner
will automatically react differently. And you will have your
needs met!
There is a simple, yet effective, process to manage disputes
even before they appear.
THIS LOOKS AS A MONUMENTAL TASK,
BUT IT' S EASY TO DO WITH THE SECRETS OFFERED TO YOU IN:
"Turning Conflicts into True Love"
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 Stop having
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Stop
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Build
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Understand
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As soon as you start using this techniques, I promise you,
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what is the root of many marital conflicts and be able to
provide an immediate solution to this challenge... Why leave
it to chance?
Even if you think now
that your relationship style is hopeless, that you have no
power against disputes that appear suddenly in your life,
and that you've tried everything and nothing worked,
WE GUARANTEE that this book secrets will WORK for you!
What if you could master hidden techniques that will give
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Change the course of things and put your relations back
in track;
Move your relations from avoidance to closeness (at
your own will);
Lose any fear of inter-personal conflict;
Learn what to say and how to say it to stop aggression;
Boost your confidence and change the way the others perceive
you;
"Turning Conflicts into True Love"
is the most clear, easy-to-follow and comprehensive system
available for people like you, in a marriage crisis due to
excessive conflicts, (either because of lack of skills to
do Fair Fighting, or due to different backgrounds or expectations)
who wish to rescue their marriage and get back on track to
a healthy, long-lasting and fulfilling relationship.
"Thousands of people worldwide, just like you, have used the
conflicts secrets offered here, to stop having fear of confrontation
and learning how to manage disagreements in the process. Will
you be next?"
Now you can improve your relationship almost immediately without
compromising your self-respect or having to beg for your partner's
agreement.
Even if your relationship has already disintegrated and fallen
apart because of the past high level of conflict, there is
still a chance for success!
The best part is that other people in your life don't have
to change! You don't have to ask anyone to do things, they
will do them because your behavior is moving them to do so!
IMAGINE THAT YOU COULD RECEIVE THIS
LETTER, IN YOUR HOME, AFTER A DISTRESSING, PAINFUL FIGHT WITH
YOUR PARTNER THAT LEFT YOU LONELY AND SCARED OF THE FUTURE...how
would you react?
Dear Peace Seeker :
Are too frequent disputes and
fights getting the joy of being married out of the picture?
Are you looking for something that can help save your relationship?
After so many moments of anguish and confrontation, are you
seeking for a real solution to restore marital harmony and
hope? Is it that you only hope to solve the present problem
and get your relationship 'back to normal' again?
Or finally
you are ready now to have a more than decent relationship,
with more peace and joy than before, and better than you ever
thought possible?
If you look at your relationship now, and think that:
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can't take another shouting match, and so in order to recover
peace of mind and respect, your only choice is to leave?
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the pain of yelling and insults and nasty words hurting you
too much?
Marriage conflict is the most sad of outcomes given
the fact that you got married to have company and love, right?
"If you need to change this type of unhealthy angry relationship,
which is destroying your happiness, then you have come to
the right place.
We created "Turning Conflicts into True
Love" with YOU in mind, so you can turn your fights
into a mutually supportive discussion with your loved
one... which will give you immensely satisfying results FAST"...
Even if you are experiencing such severe communication issues
that now the pain is too much and so you clam up, preferring
be silent and not express any of your needs just to avoid
more hurt!
"Turning Conflicts into True Love" is the most clear, easy-to-follow and comprehensive system
available for people like you, in a marriage crisis due to
excessive fighting, who wish to rescue their marriage and
get back on track to a healthy, long-lasting and fulfilling
relationship.
"Thousands of people worldwide, just like you, have used the
conflicts secrets offered here, to stop having fear of confrontation
and learning how to manage disagreements in the process. Will
you be next?"
Neil Warner, Writer and Editor
Creative Conflict Resolutions
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Here is
Jim’s story:
I had been waiting to have a good relationship the last fifteen
years, dating different women, when I met Isabella. She was
different, and blew my heart away.
But we fought a lot, and while I tried my best to be always calm and
reasonable, she began seeing me as uncaring and selfish. I was
pretty desperate, trying to convince her of my love and getting
systematically rejected. She would not even accept to talk to me
about the relationship!
And then, someone talked to me about "Turning Conflicts into True
Love" book, and I began to see things in a different perspective.
Now, I know how to use my words to come across as firm but seriously
caring, and she listens to me, and even developed a new interest in
spending her life with me.
All the while I was being calm, she was reading me as cold and
controlling! but now I know how to express myself in the most
positive way!
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Human beings enter into affective relationships
with their emotions open but justify them afterwards
only with logic. Then, even though we didn't use our
heads in the first place, we expect our relationships
to stay perfect and wonderful.
The truth is that we begin relationships with positive
emotions (love and respect) but when conflict appears
we replace them with negative ones. In all truth,
we can't think with our emotions, but we believe we
can.
If this makes sense, here are four things for you
to consider:
- Negative emotions (fear, mistrust, anger) are
imprinted in us (Unfortunately, we don’t realize
how frequent this is.)
- Negative feelings can shape ours, and theirs perceptions.
(And we don’t realize this is happening).
- We trust our feelings, even being negative, to
give us solutions to intellectual problems (Feelings
can't do that)
- It’s the way we express and frame our perceptions
that builds a negative interaction that scares people
away.
How much is keeping your relationship worth? And being
secure in your other relationships, at work, with
bosses, friends? Can you see now that "Turning
Conflicts into True Love" is a very small
investment compared with the benefits? Because you
will even manage every other relationship better,
after learning how to do conflict in a loving way
with your spouse.
What about the other people in your life for whom
it might be important to repair and keep their relationship
... like your siblings, parents or friends?
The quality of our lives depends on the quality of
the relationships we have with other people. The choice
is yours: caffe latte, or your happy life.
The is guaranteed to show you, step by step how to
defuse or confront with respect, and start making
your relationships better.
The real questions are:
Do you really want to keep your present relationships
as miserable as they are now?
Do you just only want to complain about how bad and
frustrating they are?
What does your intuition tell you?
If you could turn the clock back to when you two first
met, how would you like to relive it, or even better:
to begin knowing how to build a much stronger, substantial
and mature relationship as well?
If you believe that your relationship is a good match,
then consider:
• If you
think it's too late, it's not.
• If you "know" that it's hopeless, it's not.
• If you've given up, don't.
• If you're convinced that your partner would
never want to come back, think again.
• If you want your relationship back, you can
have it, and as good as, and maybe better that
it has ever been. |
The book will show you how
to make it happen. GUARANTEED!
The book has some concepts, theories and explanations,
but it also presents step-by-step instructions for
stopping conflict escalation into fights and repairing
damaged relationships RIGHT NOW!
Remember, we're not very logical when it comes to
establishing and maintaining our relationships. We
only use logic to find excuses for being defensive
and to justify why the relationship isn't working.
In "Turning Conflicts into
True Love," you will finally know what to do to express
yourself, resolve differences and intensify respect
and love for each other!
HAVE
YOU EVER CONSIDERED ALL THE COSTS OF THE ALTERNATIVE
SOLUTION: DIVORCE?
If you're not happy with your relationship and choose
to leave without ordering the book, fine. Just don't
leave because you think that you'll find a better
solution because most likely you will not. If you
keep doing the same things as always, you will get
the same results as always.
Did you know that divorce rate for second marriages
is much higher than for first ones? and this is high
enough already!
Before you decide to quit, check if you have all the
positive answers to the following questions:
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Do
you know what you're going to do differently
or how different you're going to be in
your next relationship?
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How
do you know if your new approach in your
new relationship will work?
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Do
you actually have that new approach worked
out so you can now find a perfectly matched
soul mate?
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If you answered even only one question as negative,
you owe to yourself the repair ofyour present relationship
first and then if you want to go, go. This failed
relationship will help you try the new techniques
without regret.
Then at least you know that you aren't going
to repeat the same mistakes....and that you did a
good faith effort to better communicate before leaving!
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I sat and
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Or this longer note just received:
"I
have been carrying this issue of resentment
with my parents, thinking that they did those
terrible things to me in purpose...it took
a while to understand that they were criatures
of their own time and culture....Even then,
I spend two months fighting with the concept
of how trapped they were in their mindsets
as not to see me, or their other children.
They never expressed any affection to us,
always embroiled in problems of their own
making.
Obviously,
they could not learn from the test of surviving
this chaotic life of theirs....When I see
how you define people as trapped in their
brains, and only doing confrontations in the
only and ineffective way they learned...well,
I can begin to accept that they had not a
lot of choices, and begin forgiving them.
They were only puppets of what they learned
in life, and I hope not to be another. I want
to be able to say what I want and be sure
not to offend but also not to be silenced.
Full of
thanks, Marguerite Adler.”
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Reading
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- How to communicate
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- How to use conflict
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- What the rules for
Fair Fighting are, and how you can apply
them;
- Why arguing is dangerous,
and the amazingly simple secret
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- How to become a team,
even when you feel like confronting;
- Why winning a fight
is so destructive to a relationship;
- How to deal with problems
involving sex or money;
- How to make paradigm
shifts (literally, quantum leaps!) in the
relationship;
- Much, much more about
how to transform your communication;
- In short, how to have
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